How To Talk To The Opposite Sex

You've probably found it difficult to start conversations or keep them going with the opposite sex. Follow these steps to conversational glory!

Difficulty: Hard

Time Required: 20 minutes

Here's How:

1. Find out what s/he is good at or enjoys doing.
2. Find out what the two of you have in common.
3. Now here's where it gets tough! It's time to talk! When you have an opportunity to say something, make your move!
4. Look him/her in the eye.
5. Smile.
6. Say, 'Hi.'
7. Ask him/her questions about things that s/he enjoys doing.
8. Ask him/her questions about the things you have in common. Mention that you have them in common!
9. When you're asking these questions, listen to what s/he has to say!
10. When it feels like the conversation is wrapping up, say, 'It was nice talking to you.'

Tips:

1. Most people enjoy it when someone of the opposite sex approaches them. Remember that and relax!
2. We don't often get an opportunity to talk about ourselves. It sure is fun when someone gives us a chance!
3. If you are self-conscious about talking with the opposite sex, remember that the person you're talking to won't be even close to as critical of you as you are of yourself.

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